Wisdom with Friends Life is complicated. Dave and Phil, two middle-aged dads and lifelong friends, try to break it down by sharing their life experiences as friends, fathers, and husbands. They've been through highs and lows and continue to grow, and together they share their wisdom with friends. Oh, and the stuff we say here is totally us. Our past, current and future employers aren't part of it. If you want to hear about our day jobs you know where to find that.