Online Dating and Navigating Exclusivity by Stay in the Loop with Lucy published on 2022-01-08T23:33:07Z We think we want to 'play the field' and hang out to see if we get a better offer but I am not so sure this is the way to go! From what I am hearing from these women it is about setting a standard knowing your self-worth way before you meet someone. Then there is no question of whether you will be one to 'mess around' or not...