Robert Joseph a.k.a. Lucien Walsh
Wailuku,Maui,Hawaii, United States
As a person I like to think of myself as confident but not a jerk. I’m a very humble man. I understand that there’s a time to give and be loving and understanding. I also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on. I’m always there for my friends and loved ones. I don’t run from adversity. I care what people think of me because I believe in being the best man I can be, even though sometimes that seems out of reach for me. I want people who come across me to think “hey what a cool guy”. It’s not about attention for me (well maybe a little). It’s about the importance of ones own honor and respect for those around him.
What makes me stronger: I was raised by a single mother. Watched her get hurt many times. Made me believe how important it is to treat a woman/man right. My mother also taught me how to have inner strength and not to get walked on. I’m also Gay and it’s made me understand just how fickle society is. I’m a TRUE to the core person about who I am and what I want. I’ve had to overcome some shitty things in life and in doing so it’s made me a much stronger man. I am a very hard working dedicated person and I live life to it’s fullest. I laugh often and am very optimistic. I think my smile is contagious..I enjoy helping others more than anything else. I would put everything I’m doing on hold if someone I know needed help with anything at all. I have family on the east coast, west coast. I have been somewhat distance from my family for a little over 9 years. For some good reason's and then some not so good just dumb ones. I have a great, maybe sarcastic, sense of humor (some would say disturbing). My humor is along the lines of Simpsons, Reno 911, Chevy Chase, Naked Gun, Seinfeld, stuff like that. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people’s feelings. . . . . . When I’m with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with . . . . . . I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important, as well as sensuality and affection. . . . . . Having some similar interests helps–some things I enjoy are fine dining, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies including foreign films, travelling, going snowboarding, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together. . . . . .