A live dj mix of music to make love to
to create to
to make out to
to dream to
I created this mix for those moments I searched for music which inspired my body, heart and soul, I created a mix to be used for sexual, spiritual or any form of connecting with yourself , yourself and another and the divine. its not a dance mix it is a mix to take you on a journey one I go on all the time, and I wanted to share with with you
Sex is a form of Divination for me, when two souls can unit together and transcend time space and our bodies magic happens. This magic is far more powerful then any drug I have yet to try and yet it has been all but lost by many in our world. Sex for many has become nothing more then a physical act leaving the heart and spirit often craving something more.
After years of studying and practicing various forms of sexual express post many years of fighting to undo the fear and guilt I was raised with around sex I started to crave a deeper path with those I shared sexual experiences with. After trying everything from celibacy to free form hanging naked from ceilings, from sharing my sexual experiences with the world to pulling away from all of it as well as many years researching sexuality and its effects on the mind body and soul I discovered many things leading me to want to share them with others.
To stay present during sex with your partner and for them to stay present with you creates a pathway to magic, and yet for many its nearly impossible. I personally feel much of this is due to the open and harsh judgement of sex and sexuality which I personally feel was all created to disempower us for our root chakra is the foundation of our energetic flow and our entire being I find it fascinating almost every religion is against the exploration and expression of sexuality. Considering religion was created by men not God.
Science has found that people live longer if they have a orgasam everyday ( at least one) have stronger immune systems , increases oxytocin, which is linked to passion , intuition and is the hormone of bonding, helps you look younger, provides a lymphatic massage, improves, circulation, and the list goes on and on. Basically science says there is NO negative side effect to sex.
But loving, healthy passion filled spirit heart and body sex can't happen when we are coming from a place of fear, shame, or guilt, because we can't be present or let go, and truly become one with someone. For most people thats really challenging, we've been sold we have to look like barbie and ken, be married and only have sex with one person forever and or some other program . Our instincts and intuitions don't always agree, and most of us dont look like barbie and ken then we worry if we are thin enough if our cock is big enough if we perform well enough in bed, then we find ourselves going through the motions, not having sex and wanting it or having it and feeling empty afterwards, and this translates into other areas of our life. Those who are not sexually content are often not content with anything, and those who suppress it often find themselves unable to really relax and or feel at peace with the world around them.
I have yet to find one book, or one place that truly educates one on sex and its depth and complexity on its beauty and intensity, that addresses the spiritual, emotional, and physical affects of engaging with others sexually, i have yet to find one that teaches when you make love your souls are forever joined in one way or another and emotionally if we all knew that and respected that now we are a piece of them and they are piece of us and through that we can create magic or break each others hearts. How through sex we form a divine connection not only with each other but with the divine and magic is created. Magic that when its happens is more powerful then any drug.
My sexual connections have all imprinted my soul, sometimes it tugs at my heart, but everyone of them holds a special place for me, a lesson learned, a adventure traveled, a life shared. For in those moments the veil is lifted and a clear path into each others souls is formed, and there magic happens. Some of my lovers are far away, some vanish, some stayed, but we have all affect each other forever, and we all affect each other forever when we make love.