#334: When Violence Is the Answer by The Art of Manliness published on 2017-08-29T15:53:45Z We’re often told violence is never the answer. My guest today would argue that not only is that idea wrong, it's also extremely dangerous. He says that sometimes violence is the answer, and that when it is, it’s the only answer. His name is Tim Larkin and he’s a self-defense expert and the founder of Target Focus Training. Tim has trained military, law enforcement, and civilians on how to use violence to protect themselves. In his latest book, "When Violence Is the Answer," Tim makes a convincing case that civilians need to change their mindset about violence if they want to protect themselves and their family. Today on the show, Tim and I discuss what he means by violence and why it's often the only possible response to violence. He then goes into detail about the difference between antisocial aggression and asocial violence and how to respond to both. We then discuss why good people should study criminals on how to use violence more effectively. We end our conversation by exploring how knowing how to kill and maim people can counterintuitively make you a more peaceful and gentle man. Genre Learning Comment by Sara Calvar ️soo Soo FIReeeeee💕 2022-09-15T10:41:22Z Comment by Keesha Bennett 🔞Comee And Seee Me...💚 2022-07-07T10:52:00Z Comment by Grahame Beresford I admire Tim's heart. It's one thing to know how to disable another human, and that's definitely an important skill set. But even more important is the capacity to understand when and how to use it. Tim, thanks for not losing your compassion. I think of what Shakespeare wrote in "King Henry the Fourth," when he said, "Discretion is the better part of valour." 2017-10-30T18:17:14Z Comment by Chris Sankey My Self-Protection training company created a simple acronym - S.A.F.E. - Situation (aware) | Avoid | FINISH | Escape. The word "fight" is not in our training and I believe the credit for that belongs to TFT. 2017-08-31T04:27:41Z Comment by Erik White Situational awareness and the willingness to do harm to those that would harm you goes a long way 2017-08-29T17:08:53Z